What can I
do to help my child with ADHD?
Treating ADHD requires a multi-modal approach. The goal of treatment
is to help your child better deal with his or her environment. This
will allow him or her to develop the self-confidence to become an
adult who is able to adapt, adjust and cope with lifes circumstances.
For many children with ADHD, medication, primarily psychostimulants,
is an important part of treatment. Behavior management is also crucial,
and some children may need individual and/or family counseling. Without
specialized interventions, most children with ADHD find it very difficult
to meet academic and behavioral expectations. A team effort, with
parents, school officials and doctors working together, is the best
way to help your child.
How can I help my child at home?
Parenting a child who has ADHD can be an exhausting and, at times,
frustrating experience. Parents play a key role in managing ADHD and
may benefit greatly from parent support groups. Children with ADHD
may have trouble understanding important directions. They are usually
in a constant state of activity. This can be a challenge to adults.
You may need to change your home life a bit to help your child. Here
are some things you can do to help:
Organize your childs life.
Organize your schedule at home. Set up specific times for waking up,
eating, playing, doing homework, doing chores, watching TV or playing
video games and going to bed. Write the schedule on a blackboard or
a piece of paper and hang it where your child will always see it.
If your child cant read yet, use drawings or symbols to show
the activities of each day. Explain any changes in routine in advance.
Make sure your child understands the changes.
Be positive
One of the most important things that you need to do is to be positive.
Reward your child regularly for any good behavioreven little
things such as getting dressed and closing doors quietly. Children
with ADHD often spend most of their day hearing negative things and
being told what they are doing wrong. They need to be praised for
good behavior. They need to have more positive reinforcement than
negative reinforcement. Children with ADHD often need their parents
to identify their areas of strength. By focusing on these areas, children
can develop the confidence and skills to tackle other, difficult situations.
Parents of children who have ADHD must work on the task of not overreacting
to their children's mistakes. Tell your child what you want rather
than what you dont want. Set up house rules. Make the rules
simple, clear and short. Rules should be explained clearly. Its
important to explain what will happen when the rules are obeyed and
when they are broken. Write down the rules and the results of not
following them. Hang this list next to the schedule. The punishment
for breaking rules should be fair, quick and consistent. If possible
and reasonable, and if not resulting in a broken house rule, parents
should try to ignore, as much as possible, negative behavior.
Make sure your directions are understood. First, get your childs
attention. Look directly into his or her eyes. Then tell your child
in a clear, calm voice specifically just what you want. Ask your child
to repeat the directions back to you. Its usually better to
keep directions simple and short. For difficult tasks, give only 1
or 2 directions at a time. Then congratulate your child when he or
she completes each step. Be consistent. Only promise what you will
deliver. Do what you say you are going to do. Repeating directions
and requests many times doesnt work well. When your child breaks
the rules, warn only once in a quiet voice. If the warning does not
work, follow through with the punishment that you promised.
Watch your children at play
Make sure someone watches your child all the time. Because they are
impulsive, children with ADHD need more adult supervision than other
children their age. Make sure adults supervise your child all day.
Watch your child around his or her friends. Making and keeping friends
is a difficult task for children with ADHD. A variety of behavioral
excesses and deficits common to these children get in the way of friendships.
They may talk too much, dominate activities, intrude in others' games,
or quit a game before its done. They may be unable to pay attention
to what another child is saying, not respond when someone else tries
to initiate an activity, or exhibit inappropriate behavior.
Parents of a child with ADHD need to be concerned about their child's
peer relations. Problems in this area can lead to loneliness, low
self-esteem, depressed mood, and increased risk for anti-social behavior.
Parents can help provide opportunities for their child to have positive
interactions with peers. There are a number of concrete steps parents
can take:
- setting up a home reward program that focuses on one or two
important social behaviors
- observing the child in peer interactions to discover good behaviors
and poor, or absent, behaviors
- directly coaching, modeling and role-playing important behaviors
- "catching the child" at good behavior so as to provide
praise and rewards
- structuring initial activities for the child and a friend that
are not highly interactive, such as trips to the library or playground
- using short breaks from peer interactions when the arousal
level becomes high
- to select playmates for your child with similar language and
physical skills
- dont allow hitting, pushing and yelling in your house
or yard
Help with school-related activities
School mornings may be difficult for children with ADHD. Get ready
the night beforelay out school clothes and get the book bag
ready. Allow enough time for your child to get dressed and eat a good
breakfast. If your child is really slow in the mornings, its
important to make enough time to dress and eat. Set up a homework
routine. Pick a regular place for doing homework. This place should
be away from distractions such as other people, TV and video games.
Break homework times into small parts and have breaks. For example,
give your child a snack after school and then let him or her play
for a few minutes. Then start homework time. Stop frequently for short
fun breaks that allow your child to do something enjoyable.
Give your child lots of encouragement, but let your child do the schoolwork.
Focus on effort, not grades. Reward your child when he or she tries
to finish schoolwork, not just for good grades. You can give extra
rewards for earning better grades. Talk with your childs teachers.
Find out how your child is doing at schoolin class, at playtime,
at lunchtime. Ask for daily or weekly progress notes from the teacher.
These notes should include good things and not so good things.
The ADHD child in school
Problems occurring at school usually prove to be the catalyst for
a diagnosis of ADHD. Behavioral difficulties may first become evident
at school because the child is asked to maintain attention for long
periods of time and sustain a persistent effort. Children with ADHD
experience difficulties in many or all of the skills needed for academic
success: starting tasks; completing tasks; making transitions; interacting
with others; following through on directions; producing work consistently;
and organizing multi-step tasks. If the child attends preschool, ADHD
is often exhibited through excessive activity and an inability to
stay with play activities for sustained periods. In elementary school,
demands placed on the child to pay attention increase. Teachers may
report the child is fidgety, often out of his seat, talkative and
interrupting, usually looking about the classroom instead of at the
teacher or chalkboard, bossy, and performing inconsistently. In middle
and high school, these children-turned-adolescents frequently settle
down, no longer appearing obviously hyperactive. Instead they may
be fidgety, restless, often looking about, and loud. Their poor learning
skills cause academic problems and under-developed social skills result
in poor peer relations. Consider getting an extra set of schoolbooks
for home. Find out the teachers lesson plans in advance, so
you can work with your child at home.
The structure and rules of the classroom are often hard for children
with ADHD. Work with your child's teacher. By understanding your child's
struggle, the teacher will be better able to help your child do better
in school. Small group settings are easier for ADHD children to handle
and should be used whenever possible. ADHD children tend to become
easily distracted by those around them in large groups. They also
are easily bored and need constant reinforcement in order to complete
tasks. For this reason, private tutors often work well. Many ADHD
children get much more done in 30 minutes or an hour with a tutor
than during an entire day at school.
It is important to remember that children with ADHD can do as well
in school as their peers. ADHD does not mean a child is not smart.
Children with ADHD may be disorganized and inattentive, but this is
a result of the disorder, not their ability to learn. Once diagnosed
and treated, children with ADHD can be helped to perform very well
in school. If your child's family physician, teachers, and counselors
work together and your child gets a lot of support from family and
friends, your child can achieve academic success. Talk to your child's
teachers and family physician about any special programs they might
know of for ADHD children. Approximately 50% of children with ADHD
can be taught in the regular classroom. Teachers must be trained to
recognize the special needs of these students and to make any appropriate
teaching and classroom modifications. The other 50% will require some
degree of special education and related services. Of this 50%, about
35-40% will primarily be served in the regular classroom with additional
support personnel and/or "pull-out" programs that provide
special services outside of the classroom. The most severely affected,
10-15%, may require self-contained classrooms.
Researchers have identified classroom characteristics that promote
success for many children who have ADHD:
- predictability
- structure
- shorter work periods
- small teacher to pupil ratio
- more individualized instruction
- interesting curriculum
- use of positive reinforces
The research literature also suggests a number of teacher characteristics
that will be helpful in teaching children with ADHD, including:
- positive academic expectations
- frequent monitoring and checking of work
- clarity in giving directions
- warmth, patience and humor
- consistency and firmness
- knowledge of different behavioral interventions
- willingness to work with a special education teacher
Behavior management techniques must often be used in the school. By
examining a child's specific problem behavior, understanding its antecedents
and consequences, educators can help children with ADHD develop behaviors
that lead to academic and social success.
Self-monitoring techniques have also proven effective in the school
setting. Self-monitoring of attention involves cueing the student
so that he can determine how well he is attending to the task at hand.
Cueing is often done by providing an audio tone, such as a random
beep, though a timer can be used or the teacher can give the cue.
The child then notes whether he was on or off-task on a simple recording
sheet. Self-monitoring techniques have proven most effective when
tied to rewards and accuracy checks.
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What medicines are used to treat ADHD?
Some medicines used to treat attention-deficit and hyperactivity disorder
(ADHD) are called psychostimulants. Some of these drugs are methylphenidate
(Ritalin®), dextroamphetamine (Dexedrine®), amphetamine and
dextroamphetamine (Adderall®) and pemoline (Cylert®). Although
these medicines have a stimulating effect in most people, they have
a calming effect in children and adults with ADHD.
Other types of medicine are also used to treat ADHD. These include
clonidine (Catapres®), desipramine (Norpramin®) and buproprion
(Wellbutrin®). Do the medicines for ADHD have side effects? The
psychostimulants may cause a decreased appetite, a stomachache or
a headache. The loss of appetite can cause weight loss in some people.
This side effect seems to be more common in children. Some people
who take psychostimulant medicines have insomnia (trouble sleeping).
If your child needs to use one of these medications, here are some
ways to avoid side effects (like a fast heartbeat, chest pain or vomiting):
We will try to use the lowest possible dose that still controls the
hyperactivity. Have your child take the medicine with food if it bothers
his or her stomach. Children who lose weight while taking medicine
for ADHD can have extra snacks during the day, such as peanut butter
and crackers, granola bars or blueberry muffins. If a child is not
hungry at dinnertime, save the meal for later.
How should medicine for ADHD be taken?
Its important to take the medicine just the way your doctor
saysnot more often and not less often. Follow your doctors
advice even if you think the medicine isnt working. Be sure
to talk with your doctor if you think the medicine isnt working.
Unless instructed otherwise, please have your child take the medicine
EVERY day. This is to help insure that the child will continue to
behave in a proper manner, and get the positive reinforcement he or
she needs.
Its best to take the morning dose of medication 30 to 45 minutes
before school starts. Good times to take this medicine are before
breakfast. Lunchtime doses can be given at school for some children.
If your child cant take this medicine at school, tell your doctor.
Your doctor might choose a long-acting form of the medicine instead.
The long-acting form of this medicine should not be crushed, broken
or chewed before swallowing. The long-acting forms are usually taken
only once a day, right before breakfast. Its also important
to know that some of the medicines used to treat ADHD are called controlled
drugs. There are special rules about the way that controlled drugs
can be prescribed, because these drugs could be used the wrong way.
The prescriptions for controlled drugs, like methylphenidate, Adderall
and dextroamphetamine, must be refilled at the drug store every month
(they cannot be called in). When calling the office for a refill,
please allow several days for it to be written. Also remember that
you have to bring the prescription in the pharmacy within one week
of when it was written.
How long will these treatments last?
People with ADHD should be checked regularly by their doctors. During
these check ups, the doctor will want to hear what the parents have
to say about a child with ADHD. The teachers comments about
the child are also important. The doctor will want to check a person
with ADHD after the medicine dose has been changed. The length of
time a person takes the medicine depends on each person. Everyone
is different. Some people only need a short treatment, for one to
two years. Some people need treatment for years. In some people, ADHD
may continue into adolescence and adulthood.
Other treatment for ADHD
Dietary intervention has long been claimed to be a useful treatment
for an array of children's learning, behavior and attention problems.
Advocates claim that removing food additives, such as preservatives
and colorings, from the diet will improve most or all of a child's
learning and attention problems. Numerous studies have debunked the
notion of an additive-free diet as a treatment for ADHD. A large number
of studies have examined the link between sugar and hyperactive behavior.
A few of these studies have found some small effects of sugar on behavior
though only a small percentage of children with ADHD seem to be vulnerable.
I believe what is much more important is a well balanced diet. Most
children are carbohydrate addicts who often have very
little protein in their diet. By increasing the protein (meat, eggs,
nuts, dried beans, tofu), especially in the morning and at lunch,
increasing vegetables, and decreasing the carbohydrates (breads, potatoes,
rice, pasta, sweets), many mood and behavior swings are greatly decreased.
Many treatments advocated for children with ADHD have not been proven
effective. Others have been proven ineffective or are completely inconsistent
with current knowledge about ADHD. Parents should be wary of investing
time, money and their child's interests in unproven, questionable
treatments, such as EEG Biofeedback.
EEG Biofeedback is the controversial therapy of the moment. Proponents
of biofeedback believe that children with ADHD can be trained to increase
the type of brain-wave activity associated with sustained attention.
Up to 20 electrodes are attached to the child's head. Levels of electrical
activity in various parts of the brain are measured and entered into
a computer. The computer provides a signal, such as a light or tone.
This "feedback" is supposed to teach the child to increase
certain kinds of brain-wave activity and decrease other types. Training
usually involves 40-80 sessions, each lasting 40 minutes or more.
This "treatment" costs $3,000 to $6,000. The studies that
suggest impressive results for EEG Biofeedback are seriously flawed.
Sample sizes were small and appropriate control groups were not used
to determine if any results are due to maturation or an "expectancy"
effect. Although not proven ineffective, I recommend that any parent
considering the use of biofeedback proceed with extreme caution.
Another theory maintains that ADHD is caused by problems in the inner
ear system. Advocates of this theory recommend an array of medications
including anti-motion sickness medications and several vitamin-like
substances. A success rate of more than 90% has been claimed for this
treatment. However, this is anecdotal and has not been published in
professional journals. No scientific support from well-controlled
investigations has been offered. This theory is completely inconsistent
with current knowledge of ADHD.
Some have even linked ADHD to yeast. Candida albicans is a type of
yeast that lives in the human body. At times candida can overgrow,
causing, for example, a vaginal yeast infection known as Candidiasis.
Those who support an ADHD - candida link believe that toxins produced
by yeast overgrowth weaken the immune system. The body then becomes
susceptible to ADHD and other disorders. Treatment consists of antifungal
medication and a low-sugar diet, as sugar is believed to stimulate
yeast growth. There is no evidence to support this theory and it is
not consistent with current knowledge of ADHD.
Another controversial theory suggests that ADHD is caused by a genetic
abnormality resulting in increased requirements for vitamins and minerals.
A treatment regimen -- debunked 20 years ago -- involves extremely
high doses of vitamins. Others have suggested that ADHD is caused
by the misalignment of two bones in the skull and promote the use
of bodily manipulations to restore these bones to their proper position.
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