Social Phobia:
What is it?
What is social phobia?
Most people feel nervous in social situations, like having a job interview,
going to a high school reunion or giving a speech. Most of us worry
about what we're going to say, do or even wear during these events.
These events often become easier with some experience. However, in
people with social phobia (also called social anxiety disorder), these
events and other social situations can be frightening and disabling.
Social phobia usually begins in the early teens, although some people
have had it for as long as they remember. Others feel it coming on
later in life, as social demands increase. It often runs in families.
Sometimes it leads to other problems, such as depression or substance
abuse.
How does a person with social phobia feel?
Most people with social phobia have a strong fear of being humiliated
or embarrassed in front of other people. People with social phobia
feel as though everyone is watching them, until they blush, sweat
or otherwise show their fear. They often believe that showing anxiety
is a sign of weakness or inferiority. They also believe other people
are more confident and competent than they really are.
People with social phobia usually know their fears are not completely
rational, but they still find themselves dreading social situations.
They may go out of their way to avoid going to some events. If they
do go to them, they usually feel very nervous before and very uncomfortable
during the event. Afterward, the unpleasant feelings may linger as
they worry about what other people thought of them.
How often is social phobia a problem?
Some people have social phobia in only 1 or 2 situations, like performing
in public or talking to an important person. Others will have it
in many situations, including using a public bathroom, eating in
a restaurant, talking on the telephone or signing their name in
front of people.
What helps social phobia?
Social phobia is a persistent disorder that usually has to be helped
with medical care. It's not just shyness. Cognitive behavioral therapy
(called CBT) helps people see social situations differently. The
therapy also involves learning how to reduce anxiety, and improving
social and conversational skills. Antidepressants and benzodiazepines
can also help some people with social phobia. People with a certain
form of social phobia, called "performance anxiety," can
take medicines called beta blockers just before they perform. Even
if you're worried about your social phobia, your doctor can help
you control your fears.
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