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Postpartum
Depression and the "Baby Blues"
Are changes in mood common after childbirth?
After having a baby, many women have mood swings.
One minute they feel happy, the next minute they start to cry. They
may feel a little depressed, have a hard time concentrating, lose
their appetite or find that they can't sleep well even when the baby
is asleep. These symptoms usually start about 3 to 4 days after delivery
and may last several days.
If you're a new mother and have any of these
symptoms, you have what is called the "baby blues." "The
blues" are considered a normal part of early motherhood and usually
go away within 10 days after delivery. However, some women have worse
symptoms or symptoms last longer. This is called "postpartum
depression."
What is postpartum depression?
Postpartum depression is an illness, like diabetes or heart disease.
It can be treated with therapy, support networks and medicines such
as antidepressants. Here are some symptoms of postpartum depression:
- Loss of interest or pleasure in life
- Loss of appetite
- Less energy and motivation to do things
- A hard time falling asleep or staying asleep
- Sleeping more than usual
- Increased crying or tearfulness
- Feeling worthless, hopeless or overly guilty
- Feeling restless, irritable or anxious
- Unexplained weight loss or gain
- Feeling like life isn't worth living
- Having thoughts about hurting yourself
- Worrying about hurting your baby
Although many women get depressed right after childbirth, some women
don't feel "down" until several weeks or months later. Depression
that occurs within 6 months of childbirth may be postpartum depression.
Who gets postpartum depression?
Postpartum depression is more likely if you had any of the following:
- Previous postpartum depression
- Depression not related to pregnancy
- Severe premenstrual syndrome (PMS)
- A difficult marriage Few family members or friends to talk to
or depend on
- Stressful life events during the pregnancy or after the childbirth
Why do women get postpartum depression?
The exact cause isn't known. Hormone levels change during pregnancy
and right after childbirth. Those hormone changes may produce chemical
changes in the brain that play a part in causing depression. Feeling
depressed doesn't mean that you're a bad person, or that you did something
wrong or that you brought this on yourself.
How long does postpartum depression last?
It's hard to say. Some women feel better within a few weeks, but others
feel depressed or "not themselves" for many months. Women
who have more severe symptoms of depression or who have had depression
in the past may take longer to get well. Just remember that help is
available and that you can get better.
What kinds of treatments help with postpartum
depression?
Postpartum depression is treated much like any other depression. Support,
counseling ("talk therapy") and medicines can help.
If I'm breast-feeding, can I take an antidepressant?
If you take an antidepressant medicine, it will go into your breast
milk. Talk to your doctor about the risks of taking an antidepressant
while breast-feeding. Your doctor can decide which medicine you can
use while nursing your baby.
What can I do to help myself?
If you have given birth recently and are feeling sad, blue, anxious,
irritable, tired or have any of the other symptoms mentioned here,
remember that many other women have had the same experience. You're
not "losing your mind" or "going crazy" and you
shouldn't feel that you just have to suffer. Here are some things
you can do that other mothers with postpartum depression have found
helpful:
- Find someone to talk to--and tell that person about your feelings.
- Get in touch with people who can help you with child care, household
chores and errands. This social support network will help you
find time for yourself so you can rest.
- Find time to do something for yourself, even if it's only 15
minutes a day. Try reading, exercising (walking is good for you
and easy to do), taking a bath or meditating.
- Keep a diary. Every day, write down your emotions and feelings
as a way of "letting it all out." Once you begin to
feel better, you can go back and reread your diary--this will
help you see how much better you are.
- Even if you can only get one thing done in any given day, this
is a step in the right direction. There may be days when you can't
get anything done. Try not to get angry with yourself when this
happens.
- It's OK to feel overwhelmed. Childbirth brings many changes,
and parenting may be a new role. When you're not feeling like
yourself, these changes can seem like too much to cope with.
- You're not expected to be a "supermom." Be honest
about how much you can do, and ask other people to help you.
- Find a support group in your area or contact one of the organizations
listed below. They can put you in touch with people near you who
have experience with postpartum depression.
Postpartum Depression Resources
The following organizations can help you find
a support group:
Postpartum Support International
927 N. Kellogg, Santa Barbara, CA 93111
Telephone: 805-967-7636
Fax: 805-967-0608
Internet: www.iup.edu/an/postpartum/
Postpartum Education for Parents
P.O. Box 6154
Santa Barbara, CA 93160
Internet: www.marketmedia.com/pep/
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